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Friday 29 August, 2008
By  ksanjay   22:26 | 7/May/2008 |  7 Comment(s)
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GIRLS ARE RESPONSIBLE

Girls themselves are responsible for their miserable state or plight.

Yes it might offend them still it’s true.

I am not talking about the girls who hail from poor or lower middle class. It is easy to understand their position.They hardly have any say even in their own families what to say about society !!

I am talking about the girls who go to good public schools,avail best education and get freedom to lead the life the way they want.

Let’s start with the biggest menace of Indian society i.e. dowry.

Even highly educated girls, well established girls hardly ever raise their voice against this curse.They can easily put their foot down - against the boys who demand dowry.

Why these girls like other illiterate ones give so much importance to marriage ? Why do they also think that marriage is their ultimate destiny ? Why do they keep mum when they see with their own eyes how tough it is for their fathers to manage their dowry ? If you don’t raise your voice against evil,it means you are a part of that evil and you are supporting it.

Look here, education doesn’t mean getting degrees and getting jobs.

It means - daring to call a spade a spade.It means to grow up mentally.

Modernity doesn’t mean wearing trendy dresses and sporting mod look.

It means being bolder and smarter.It means means bringing positive change in life.

Girls have got to break the shackles of traditional thinking.They themselves have to bring meaningful,fruitful changes in their lives.

Boys who ask for dowry are definitely rogues,but girls who agree to marry these ( highly educated and placed ) snobs and hoodlums are even more responsible.

What say ??

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